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Lynn says:

i married one…its so painful. can they ever change? he really become AFTER he quite drinking…not that i want him to drink again but is there hope i guess is what i want to knoow…. thanks

Rosa Copado says:

Wow this is exactly what what I wanted to here, thank you

Bert Amerman says:

I love your videos they are soooo so helpful.

What happens if the narcissist Is your wife and you love her and want to have hope she will realize she is hurting me? Is it possible for narcissists to ever change or is this the way they always will be?

Joanna Chase says:

I was involved with a narc that I met initially as a patient in the ER, he was my nurse. The relationship was inappropriate to begin with. Now that I've been discarded, I can't help but feel victimised by virtue of illness. Also he exploited my kindness and compassion. I'm considering filing a complaint to the board of nursing, considering this is a pattern of behavior. Not the first patient he has had a sexual relationship with. Thoughts?

susan mather says:

You are SO right abt feeling GRATEFUL for being discarded…but it takes a few months or so, even longer, of really important self-care. This past narc was my MINISTER who targeted me (she said I seemed โ€˜gentleโ€™, her word probably for being easy to manipulate). It was an unusual situation, Iโ€™d joined the โ€˜progressiveโ€™ church after six years of isolation due to four major spinal surgeries; I was in a really vulnerable, tender stage of reemergence. Because she was my minister, and bc I was vulnerable, I was open for exploitation. Thatโ€™s the thing: narcs always target vulnerable people. Then lovebombing, devaluation and discard. I saw what was happening bc Iโ€™d been studying this stuff, it blew my mind that I recognized every narc thing she did but I didnโ€™t really know how to protect myself except to withdraw emotionally (with her), but internally it really screwed me up. It was like being in a mental prison, and my knee jerk tendency was to make excuses for her. It takes awhile to learn self-protection, difficult. I finally withdrew but it entailed leaving the whole church community. Narcs are as SELFISH af. Iโ€™ve gone NO CONTACT. Itโ€™s been quite an ordeal, sometimes I think I should report her bc I just know sheโ€™s gonna do this to others, vulnerable people. But I donโ€™t want to get pulled in to any further (perhaps legal) drama bc of it. I feel for women whoโ€™ve been sexually harassed/abused bc itโ€™s ALWAYS with one of these emotionally disordered vampires. Anyway, I think education is the crucial next-step in society, and for the legal system. I want to pursue this further but havenโ€™t quite figured out exactly how yet. Youโ€™re a very good teacher. Keep it upโค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

Wn1dr Bob says:

No I wouldn't waste my time trying to take revenge on someone who is weaker than I am, nor on their flying monkeys who assist them. To the narc who has hacked my phone and to your flying monkey: you are cowards and you are already living your punishment—the knowing that you are evil.

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Rocsi says:

I love the way you explain. Itโ€™s like everything I think to myself but it jus feels better for me to hear it

jen forshaw says:

Your words are so comforting at the minute. After 17 years and 3 lovely kids, I am kicking a Narc out at the end of this month. Oh joy, joy, joy. He's told me I'm scum and I'm on the losing side. Its all about them feeling better than you and them winning.

LoveRachelXOXOXO says:

Best revenge is to cut of their supply of you by removing yourself from their life.

T- one 1000 says:

You are god !
You are my god !
You are my saviour !
Your videos really are helping me to go through a pain full 13 years marriage breakup with three kid.
I love you so much.
I love your voice.
It is the best therapy
You are the strong and loving sister i never had
Please make a video every day
Your voice is my drug
And i am addicted to it
I put your video on my sound system and it echos in my whole house.
I love u

beautyqueenki says:

I am dating one bout ready to move on.. He just doesnt care about my feelings on things shuts me completely out.. I know I will have to leave soon.. But we live together right now๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜ฃ

Jessiethegirl23 says:

Iโ€™m hoping Iโ€™ve been discarded for good because Iโ€™m pretty sure I got the message across that I canโ€™t be controlled anymore. However, I may be being โ€œpunishedโ€ with fake discard or silent treatment. Not sure because a liar is hard to gauge and patterns would suggest itโ€™s a punishment. Iโ€™m going with starving him of supply. Very difficult for me but itโ€™s really the only thing left to do.

Elizabeth Franceschi says:

it gets better in time you dont even care

Jeffrey Conyers says:

awesome video!

rosely covali says:

I donโ€™t feel any wish to be even with them or to win. I just cut off my whole family and now I observe how happy and free I can be.

BlessedByHim says:

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Manuela Caamano says:

Thank you so much for making these videos

Lisa Edgett says:

Your videos are what put a name to the last seven years of my life with a man I fell for that played the victim from a previous marraige..now I know, not only the role he played in its demise (22 years..God bless her) but, now I have a name to put on all the things I went through after. Thank you.

shealynn victorialovlend says:

I stayed with my ex collin Michael hull , for a long time it really hurt, but now I realize I was way better,. I desreves better I was way blind first I was so lost because all the men I use to date I did not open with to I open up to him a lot and I he made up excuses for his reactions and how he try to make him self look an try to make think to understandable level now i see the deepest parts of me

shealynn victorialovlend says:

Thank you I really need this today

J P says:

Great channel thanks for sharing!

Victoria Godisforever** says:

I'm currently working on trying to stay away from mine.. My son's father has always beat me down mentally and finding a way to get me back hooked again.. He knows i don't want to keep my son's away, so he will try use that against me , but things he does in his lifestyle are unsafe for my son's to be around.. How do I get him to leave me alone? I do still love him so much and I feel so defeated by him.. I used to be such a confident person and am struggling with myself now.. How do I get back to myself?

september luketz says:

Thank you Stephanie!

september luketz says:

This is exactly what I needed to hear

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